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Local classes teach parents in North Carolina how to use American Sign Language with infants and young children in order to encourage early communication, increased IQ, and early reading!
Source: Learn and Grow Together
May 14, 2008 00:44:16
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PRLog (Press Release) – May 14, 2008 – Recently, parents, caregivers, and childcare professionals have started using sign language to communicate with preverbal infants. Signing with babies is gaining popularity because it empowers children with early communication skills and helps to significantly reduce frustration. 

Local classes teach adults in North Carolina how to use American Sign Language with infants and young children. Signing with pre-verbal hearing babies is one of the most fascinating and fastest growing parenting trends in North America. American Sign Language (ASL) is the third most commonly used language in the United States and its popularity is growing! 

Rebecca Marsch is the founder and owner of Learn and Grow Together, based out of Morrisvlille, North Cariolina, and certified Wee Hands baby, toddler, and preschool sign language instructor. Learn and Grow Together provides workshops, classes, and personal instruction in the NC Triangle and surrounding areas designed to introduce American Sign Language (ASL) to infants, toddlers, and preschoolers as well as their parents, care givers and family members. 

Studies show that using American Sign Language with infants and toddlers can help to reduce frustration, strengthen the parent-child bond, enrich children's literacy and speech & language development, boost vocabulary, increase self-confidence, and stimulate intelligence. Children with special needs also benefit from the gift of ASL, allowing them to communicate in a meaningful way. 

Rebecca has her degree in Early Childhood Education and has 17 years experience with working with children from birth to preschool age. She also has 3 children of her own, ages 8, 5, and 1. From using signs, her 1 year old has a sign/spoken vocabulary of almost 100 words. 

A National Research Study has shown that using sign language with hearing babies and toddlers allows communication and spoken language to happen earlier and faster, while reducing frustration and tantrums. Most children have 2-3 words by 12 months, whereas, children who use sign typically have: 5 signs and 1 word by 8 months! and 25 signs and 16 words by 12 months! Most children start combining words into 2 word sentences by 20 months, whereas children who sign typically do this by 11-14 months and some as early as 6 months, sometimes earlier! The typical non-signing, hearing child has 20-400 words by age 2.

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Harvey Karp coming to Durham!!!!

When Corinna Page of Durham was pregnant, a friend gave her a copy of a book, The Happiest Baby on the Block, by pediatrician Harvey Karp. Page laid the book aside and forgot about it — until her daughter Cadence was born.


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Positive Parenting Idea of the Day

Children, particularly young ones, need to be represented before various groups and institutions because they do not have the status or capabilities to do so themselves.  It is an important part of the job of parenting to connect children to these groups and individuals and to advocate on their behalf.

-- Kerby T. Alvy, The Positive Parent: Raising Healthy, Happy and Successful Children, Birth through Adolescence.

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Mom's gift to kids: 'No!'

Oprah

(Oprah.com) -- Rabbi Shmuley Boteach, host of a show on Oprah and Friends Radio, says we can't just blame kids for acting bratty or spoiled. Kids today, he says, are exhibiting a lot of anger because they feel neglected by parents who may put careers ahead of family.

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Published in NY!!

http://blog.syracuse.com/family/2008/05/guest_blogger_writes_about_pre.html#more 


Of course, I was hoping for the paper lol, but this is close enough. It's good to have connections! (THough it was SUPOSED to be in April Laughing )

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Positive Parenting Idea of the Day

A child’s courage enables the child to try, fail, and try again, until she masters the challenges life presents.

--Michael H. Popkin, Active Parenting Now

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My baby is 15 months old!!!

WOW I can not believe that Wyatt is already 15 months old. It seems like he was just born. I swear I was just holding my newborn baby boy in my arms and nursing him for the first time!! Now he has been nursing for 15 months and going strong. 


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I am so amazed at his progress daily. He is learning more words and sentences, signs and how to do things. He figures out everything so quickly, that we have to constantly keep him entertained. He is always happy and LOVES his big brother and sister...they are his favorite play things. 

He is going to miss his big sister when she goes to school in 3 months!! I don't know if he will know what to do with himself without her to play with and chase around...especially with having Nick home all summer!!


Happy 15 month birthday lil man!! 

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Impairments In Language Development Can Be Detected In Infants As Young As 3 Months Old

Uncover how the brains of infants distinguish differences in sounds and it may become possible to correct language problems even before children start to speak, sparing them the difficulties that come from struggling with language.

New studies conducted by Professor of Neuroscience April Benasich and her Infancy Studies Laboratory at Rutgers University in Newark are revealing new and exciting clues about how infant brains begin to acquire language and paving the way for correcting language difficulties at a time when the brain is most able to change.

Benasich and her lab were the first to determine that how efficiently a baby processes differences between rapidly occurring sounds is the best predictor of future language problems. Using methods developed by Benasich and her lab, it can be determined as early as three to six months whether a baby will struggle with language development.

Benasich’s research is now focused on uncovering in specific detail how the developing brain processes and distinguishes acoustic differences that arrive in rapid succession. The ability to differentiate those sounds, such as the difference between “ba” and “da,” is critically important because decoding language requires us to process tiny auditory differences occurring as quickly as 40 milliseconds. During the first months of life, the baby’s developing brain also is involved in constructing an acoustic map of the sounds of his or her native language. That map allows the baby to efficiently acquire language. Apparently, however, in some infants the process seems to go awry.

About 5 to 10 percent of all children beginning school are estimated to have language-learning impairments (LLI) leading to reading, speaking and comprehension problems, according to Benasich. In families with a history of LLI, 40 to 50 percent of children are likely to have a similar problem. Many of these children go on to develop dyslexia.

Using several novel methods, including dense array EEG/ERP recordings, Benasich and her lab are able to analyze EEG, ERPs and the proportion of gamma power in infant brains. The dense sensor array allows the researchers to gently measure a full range of brain activity. Those measurements are obtained by placing a soft bonnet of sensors, resembling a hairnet with lots of little sponges, on a baby’s head and then having the infant listen to different series of rapid tone sequences.

“We are finding that children who have difficulty processing rapid auditory input are not just showing a simple maturational lag, but are actually processing incoming acoustic information differently,” says Benasich. 

Specifically, the research shows that babies who struggle with rapid auditory processing appear to be using different brain areas (as shown by neural patterns) and perhaps different analysis strategies to accomplish that task than children who do not have such difficulties. Included among their initial findings, the researchers have found less left hemisphere activity in the brains of children who struggle with rapid auditory processing as compared with matched control children. By pinpointing the exact differences in how the brain handles incoming acoustic information, it may become possible to guide the brains of babies at risk of developing language problems to work more efficiently before the children even begin to speak.

“We can predict with about 90 percent accuracy what a baby’s language capabilities will be just by their response to tones,” says Benasich. “Our hope now is that we will be able to gently guide the brains of infants who are at the highest risk for language learning impairments to be more efficient processors so they can avoid the difficulties that result from struggling with language.”

To shed additional light on how inefficiencies in rapid auditory processing might be corrected, Benasich and her team have developed a Magnetic Resonance Imaging (MRI) protocol for scanning naturally sleeping healthy babies. This technique will allow better localization of active brain areas. To solve the challenge of imaging the brains of young children who typically are unable to lie still for extended periods in a scanner, Benasich’s team conducts the scans in the evening and asks the parents to go through their child’s normal bedtime routine, such as reading their infant a story, nursing them, rocking and snuggling. Once the child is asleep, headphones providing a steady stream of lullabies and an acoustic foam bonnet are placed on the baby’s head to reduce the sound of the MRI.

“Our goal is not only to develop training techniques to correct rapid auditory processing problems, but to identify the period during infant development when the brain is most “plastic,” or most able to change through learning,” explains Benasich.

The lab’s work is funded by several sources, including grants from the Solomon Center for Neurodevelopmental Research, the Don and Linda Carter Foundation, the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development, and a new $460,000 grant from the Ellison Medical Foundation.

Adapted from materials provided by Rutgers University.

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Family Wealth May Explain Differences In Test Scores In School-age Children

A new study published in the March/April 2008 issue of the journal Child Development finds that family wealth might partly explain differences in test scores in school-age children. The study, conducted by researchers at New York University, also found that family wealth is positively associated with parenting behavior, home environment, and children's self-esteem.

Prior research has documented the association between children's cognitive achievement and the socioeconomic status of their parents as measured by education level, occupation, and income. Many of these studies focused on the effect of poverty--defined by family income--on children's achievement, but household wealth (i.e., net worth) has received little attention.

This new study used new methods, including data from a new national study (the Panel Study of Income Dynamics and its Child Development Supplement). It explored many functional forms and sources of wealth, looking at different mediating pathways of wealth from distinct sources, and analyzing how wealth affects children's cognitive achievement at different stages of childhood.

The researchers found a marked disparity in family wealth between Black and White families with young children, with White families owning more than 10 times as many assets as Black families. The study found that family wealth had a stronger association with cognitive achievement of school-aged children than that of preschoolers, and a stronger association with school-aged children's math than with their reading scores.

Family wealth accumulated from different sources also was found to have a distinct influence on children at different developmental stages. Liquid assets, particularly holdings in stocks or mutual funds, were positively associated with school-aged children's test scores. Family wealth was associated with a higher quality home environment, better parenting behavior, and children's private school attendance.

The researchers suggest that the stronger impact of wealth on school-aged children may be because school-aged children benefit more from family wealth that is spent on educational resources that require substantial financial investment, such as private schools, extracurricular activities, and cultural experiences. Furthermore, older children may be more conscious of differences in wealth relative to their peers as they are exhibited in the quality of the learning environment, possessions, and the type of neighborhood where children live. These differences may influence their self-esteem and aspirations, which in turn are positively associated with their school performance.

"While wealth may help smooth consumption on a more short-term basis, the presence of wealth over time in a family (or extended family) may have a stronger impact of engendering a sense of economic security, future orientation, and the ability to take risks among all family members which, in turn, positively affect child development," according to W. Jean Yeung, professor of sociology at New York University and the lead author of the study.

Despite the marked disparity in wealth between Black and White families, the study found little evidence that wealth by itself explains the test score gaps between Black and White children. Those gaps were found to become less meaningful when child and family demographic characteristics and parents' income, education, and occupation were held constant. "Although wealth may not have a substantial short-term benefit in narrowing the Black-White achievement gap among young children, allowing and encouraging low-income families to accumulate wealth may improve family dynamics and foster a forward-looking attitude that may benefit children's development in the long run," said Yeung. "The financial effects of wealth would likely be observed later in life when school financing becomes an issue."

Journal reference:  Black-White Achievement Gap and Family Wealth by Yeung, WJ, and Conley, D (New York University). Child Development, Vol. 79, Issue 2.

The study was funded by the Eunice Kennedy Shriver National Institute of Child Health and Human Development.

Adapted from materials provided by Society for Research in Child Development, via EurekAlert!, a service of AAAS.

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Is my child gifted?

"Is my child gifted?" That is a question many parents ask. Finding the answer is not always easy because gifted children are individuals. They are as different from one another as non-gifted children are from other non-gifted children. However, gifted children have enough in common to make it possible to determine if a child is gifted or not. One just has to consider several different factors.

Traits and Characteristics: 
Parents often wonder if their child is gifted when they see evidence of advanced abilities, for example, early reading, excellent memories, or relating well to adults. They can begin to get a sense of their child's giftedness by looking at lists of characteristics. However, it is important to remember that a child does not have to have all of the traits to be gifted.

To the trained eye, it can be fairly easy to spot a gifted child. Even to the not-so-trained eye of a parent, it's easy to notice that a child is not quite like other children. However, parents often question what those differences mean. They know their child is smart, but gifted? Looking at a list of gifted traits or characteristics is a quick first step in determining whether a child is gifted. If you have a toddler and you're wondering if he or she is gifted, take a look at the list of characteristics of young gifted children.

Cognitive Traits
    • Very Observant
    • Extremely Curious
    • Intense interests
    • Excellent memory
    • Long attention span
    • Excellent reasoning skills
    • Well-developed powers of abstraction, conceptualization, and synthesis
    • Quickly and easily sees relationships in ideas, objects, or facts
    • Fluent and flexible thinking
    • Elaborate and original thinking
    • Excellent problem solving skills
    • Learns quickly and with less practice and repetition
    • Unusual and/or vivid imagination

Social and Emotional Traits (see Supersensitivities in Gifted Children)
    • Interested in philosophical and social issues
    • Very sensitive, emotionally and even physically
    • Concerned about fairness and injustice
    • Perfectionistic
    • Energetic
    • Well-Developed Sense of Humor
    • Usually intrinsically motivated
    • Relates well to parents, teachers and other adults

Language Traits (See Language Development in Gifted Children)
    • Extensive Vocabulary
    • May Read Early
    • Reads Rapidly and Widely
    • Asks "what if" questions

Additional Traits
    • Enjoys learning new things
    • Enjoys intellectual activity
    • Displays intellectual playfulness
    • Prefers books and magazines meant for older children
    • Skeptical, critical, and evaluative
    • Asynchronous development

How old does a child have to be before he or she exhibits characteristics of giftedness? Many parents and teachers believe that a child is gifted when school tests say they are, and these tests aren't given until third or fourth grade, if at all. The truth is that gifted traits show up in toddlers. In fact, some of them can be seen even in infants! 

Browse through the following lists and see how many characteristics apply to your young child. Keep in mind that to be gifted a child need not have every one of these characteristics. 

Traits in Young Children:
  1. As infants, may get fussy if facing one direction for too long
  2. As infants, appear alert
  3. Need less sleep, even as infants
  4. Frequently reach 'milestones' such as walking and first speech earlier than average
  5. May speak late, but then speak in complete sentences
  6. Strong desire to explore, investigate, and master the environment (opens up cabinets, takes things apart)
  7. Toys and games mastered early, then discarded
  8. Very active (but activity with a purpose, not to be confused with ADHD)
  9. Can distinguish between reality and fantasy (questions about Santa or the tooth fairy come very early!
Highly gifted toddlers may also show an intense interest in numbers or letters.
These are often the children who start doing simple math or teach themselves to read by the time they are three. However, a child who does not read or do math early may still be gifted. Children who read or do math early are almost certainly gifted, but not all gifted children do those things early. 

Studies of gifted infants (those who score high on IQ tests as grade school children) show that they have a low tolerance for the familiar and a preference for novelty. Basically, infants were shown different objects for a certain amount of time. Those infants who later were shown to be gifted children looked away from objects more quickly than other infants. When shown a familiar object and a new one, the gifted infants preferred to look at the new one.

This is interesting since it supports the idea that gifted children need new information to learn, that they get bored with the same old information day after day. Their frustration at having to learn and "relearn" the same information is due to this apparently inborn need for novelty and not to their being spoiled, as many people imply (or state outright!)

heir giftedness does not become apparent until after they start school. Gifted traits, however, can be recognized in toddlers. If you know what to look for you can also recognize gifted characteristics in infants! 

Characteristics of Giftedness in Infants
  • Extremely alert -- always looking around
  • Needs less sleep than most other babies
  • Needs almost constant stimulation when awake
  • May begin to mimic sounds earlier than other babies
  • Tend to be exceptionally sensitive to sounds, smells, textures, tastes and may cry vigorously in response to unpleasant or stong ones. (These are early signs of Dabrowski's "supersensitivities."

A baby does not have to have each of these signs in order to be gifted, but many babies who turn out to be gifted children will usually display more than one.

The most recognized trait is extreme alertness. The hardest trait to recognize is the exceptional sensitivities. When these babies cry as a result of these sensitivities, it may seem as though they are crying for no apparent reason, so parents believe they have a "difficult" baby. Sometimes parents may even believe the baby has colic. The babies, however, could be crying because they don't like the feel of their clothing or of the diaper, or perhaps the smell of dinner is too strong.

Developmental Milestones: 
Giftedness tends to run in families, so many of the traits that indicate giftedness are common among extended family members. Parents can look at a sign of giftedness and consider it perfectly normal, average behavior. After all, several family members have the same trait. Parents can also look at a list of traits and just be unsure if their child really fits the descriptions, so it's good to compare a child's development to the average developmental milestones. It's also a good idea to see what is considered advanced development.

Sometimes it’s not enough to define what something is; we also need to explain what it’s not. This is certainly true of gifted children. It’s just not always enough to explain what it means to be a gifted child; we also need to explain what a gifted child is not. In other words, parents of gifted children need to be aware of the developmental milestones of average children to understand the advanced development of their gifted children. 

Here is a list of some basic developmental milestones from ages three months to five years. Although most children will reach these milestones at approximately the time noted, there is considerable variation, with some children reaching them a little earlier and some children reaching them a little later. Gifted children, however, tend to reach several milestones weeks, months, and even years earlier than average children.

Three Months:
  • Lifts and turns head from side to side when lying on stomach
  • Grasps rattle when placed in hand
  • Smiles when smiled at
  • Follows moving object or person with eyes
  • Turns head toward bright colors and lights and toward the sound of a human voice
  • Makes cooing and gurgling sounds
  • Reacts to peek-a-boo games
Six Months:
  • Holds head steady when sitting (with some help)
  • Reaches for and grasps objects
  • Helps hold bottle during feeding
  • Explores by mouthing and banging objects
  • Pulls up to sitting position if hands are grasped
  • Opens mouth for spoon
  • Babbles and makes sing-song sounds
  • Knows familiar faces
Twelve Months:
  • Drinks from cup with help
  • Grasps small objects with thumb and forefinger
  • Puts small blocks in and out of a container
  • Sits unsupported
  • Crawls on hands and knees
  • Pulls self up to stand
  • Takes steps while holding on to furniture
  • Stands alone momentarily
  • Walks with one hand held
  • Moves body to music
  • Begins to use objects, like a comb, correctly
  • Babbles, but with inflection, which sounds like talking
  • Says first word
  • Responds to another’s distress by showing distress/crying
  • Understands simple commands
Eighteen Months:
  • Turns pages in a book
  • Stacks two blocks
  • Walks without help
  • Scribbles with crayons
  • Identifies object in a picture book
  • Begins to sort by shapes and colors
  • Follows simple, one-step directions
  • Says 8-10 words others can understand
  • Repeats words heard in conversation
  • Looks at person speaking to him or her
  • Uses “hi,” “bye,” and “please” when reminded
  • Asks for something by pointing or using one word
  • Acts out familiar activity in play (i.e. pretending to eat)
  • Recognizes self in mirror or pictures
Two Years:
  • Drinks from a straw
  • Feeds self with spoon
  • Builds tower with 3-4 blocks
  • Opens cabinets, drawers, boxes
  • Walks upstairs with help
  • Likes to take things apart
  • Explores surroundings
  • Begins to make believe play
  • Can and will follow directions
  • Enjoys looking at the same books over and over
  • Has vocabulary of several hundred words
  • Uses 2-3 word sentences
  • Comforts a distressed friend of parent
  • Refers to self by name and uses “me” and “mine”
  • Points to eyes, ears, or nose when asked
Three Years:
  • Builds tower of 4-5 blocks
  • Walks up steps, alternating feet
  • Turns pages in a book one at a time
  • Pays attention for about three minutes
  • Remembers what happened yesterday
  • Knows some numbers, but not always in the right order
  • Looks through a book alone
  • Likes to be read to
  • Counts 2-3 objects
  • Follows simple one-step commands
  • Uses 3-5 word sentences
  • Asks short questions
  • Names at least one color correctly
  • Knows first and last name
  • Recognizes & understands most common objects & pictures
Four Years Old:
  • Starts copying letters
  • Tries to write name
  • Builds tower of 7-9 blocks
  • Puts together simple 4-12 piece puzzle
  • Walks downstairs using handrail and alternating feet
  • Knows some basic colors
  • Sorts by shape and color
  • Counts up to 5 objects
  • Follows three instructions given all at once
  • Has large vocabulary
  • Wants to know “why” and “how”
  • Knows own age and name of hometown
  • Asks direct questions
  • Speaks well enough for strangers to understand
  • Has large vocabulary
  • Uses sentences of 5 or more words
Five Years Old:
  • Uses knife and fork well
  • Walks downstairs without a handrail, alternating feet
  • Balances on one foot for five seconds
  • Prints some letters
  • Copies shapes and patterns
  • Knows most basic colors
  • Wants to know what words mean
  • Recites own address and phone number
  • Copies own name
  • Identifies some letters of the alphabet
  • Counts up to 10 objects
  • Interested in cause and effect
  • Uses 6 words in a sentence
  • Uses “and,” “but,” and “then” to make longer sentences
  • Invents make believe games with simple rules
One characteristic of gifted children is advanced language ability, which means these children reachdevelopmental milestones relating to language earlier than developmental charts would indicate. This means that gifted children tend to talk earlier, have larger vocabularies, and use longer sentences than non-gifted children. 

How can parents tell if their child's language development is advanced? A first step is to look at typical language developmental milestones. A second step is to look at what advanced language development is.

Language Developmental Milestones


At three months, a child:
  • Makes cooing and gurgling sounds
At six months, a child:
  • Babbles and makes sing-song sounds
At twelve months, a child:
  • Babbles, but with inflection, which sounds like talking
  • Says first word
At eighteen months, a child:
  • Says 8-10 words others can understand
  • Has vocabulary of about 5 to 40 words, mostly nouns
  • Repeats words heard in conversation
  • Uses “hi,” “bye,” and “please” when reminded
At two years, a child:
  • Has a vocabulary of 150 to 300 words
  • Uses 2-3 word sentences, usually in noun-verb combinations, such as "Dog bark," but also using inflection with combinations like "More cookie?"
  • Refers to self by name and uses “me” and “mine”
At three years, a child:
  • Uses 3-5 word sentences
  • Asks short questions, usually using "what" or "where."
  • Has a vocabulary of about 900-1000 words
At four years, a child:
  • Has a vocabulary of about 1,500 to 2,500 words
  • Uses sentences of 5 or more words
At five years, a child:
  • Identifies some letters of the alphabet
  • Uses 6 words in a sentence
  • Uses “and,” “but,” and “then” to make longer sentence
By age six, a child's language begins to sound like adult speech, including the use of complex sentences, with words like "when," for example.
However, children tend not to use sentences with "although" and "even though" until about age 10. 

Advanced Language Development

Early Talking
Gifted children tend to begin talking early. While most children say their first word at around one year of age, gifted children may begin speaking when they are nine months old. Some parents report that their children said their first word even earlier than that, as early as six months of age. 

Some parents have even reported that their children tried very hard to form words at three months! However, most babies are simply not physically developed sufficiently to control their mouths, tongue, and lips well enough to make the speech sounds they need. They may purse their lips and nearly turn blue with the effort and then become quite frustrated when they can't make the sounds they want to make.

Teaching babies sign language is a good way to help these children express themselves without vocalization. 

It's important to note that not all gifted children speak early. In fact, some gifted children are late talkers, not talking until they are two years old or even older. When they do speak, however, they sometimes skip over the stages of language development and may begin speaking in full sentences. While early talking is a sign of giftedness, not speaking early is not an indication that a child is not gifted.

Advanced Vocabulary
An advanced vocabulary can mean two different things. It can mean the number of words a child uses and it can mean the types of words a child uses.

While a non-gifted child may have a vocabulary of 150-300 words at age two, gifted children may have surpassed the 100 word mark by the time they are eighteen months old. At eighteen months, most children have a vocabulary of from five to twenty words, although some do reach the fifty-word milestone by the time they are two years old. In their second year, most children increase their vocabulary to up to 300 words. Gifted children, however, will have a larger working vocabulary, approaching that of a four year old or even older children.

The other type of advanced vocabulary refers to the types of words a child has in his or her vocabulary. Typically, the first words a child learns will be nouns: mama, daddy, dog, ball, bird, etc. After that, simple verbs are added, for example, want, go, see, give. Gifted children, however, will be adding connecting words, such as and or evenbecause. By age three, gifted children might also have added transitional words, such as however or multisyllabic words like appropriate. 

Sentence Structures
A typical two-year old can construct sentences of two or three words, often without a verb. For example, a child might say, "There cat" for "There is a cat." A gifted child, however, will often be able to speak in fuller sentences at age two and by age three, their language may already resemble adult speech. They are able to use time markers, like now, later, first, and then, which, along with their advanced vocabulary and more complete sentences, allow them to carry on full conversations with adults. 

Although most gifted children have this kind of advanced language development, its absence does not mean a child is not gifted. The range of normal language development is also as widely variable in gifted children as it is in the non-gifted population. These descriptions of what might be typical in a gifted child are meant to help parents understand what advanced language ability looks like.

Super Sensitivities or Overexcitabilities: 
Many gifted children have one or more "Supersensitivities." A child may get his feelings hurt very easily or he may be sensitive to loud noises or be bothered by the seams on socks. A child may also have excess energy and be in constant motion. It is important to realize, though, that not all gifted children have these sensitiities.


Differing Views of the Term "Gifted": 
One reason parents, and many others, have trouble understanding whether a child is gifted or not is the conflicting definitions of the term "gifted." Not everyone who uses the terms is necessarily referring to the same set of qualities. Learning about the history of the term and the changes in its meaning will go a long way in helping parents understand just what giftedness is and whether their child is gifted.

Intelligence Testing: 
IQ testing can help parents determine if their child is gifted, although experts recommend that children not be tested before age five and preferably before age nine since results may not be entirely accurate. It is usually not necessary for parents to have their child tested unless it is necessary to advocate for a more appropriate education than what a child is getting. Testing can provide peace of mind for parents who have constant doubts about their child's abilities.

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